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Tuesday, January 20, 2009
關於 榮辱觀的小故事 十二生肖

有一次,我有機會和歐洲貴族聚餐。 可能酒喝多了,一位德國貴族站了起來, 諷刺說 :' 你們中國人都是屬什麼豬啊!狗啊!老鼠啊! 不像我們,都是金牛座、獅子座、仙女座 ……真不知道你們祖先怎麼想的?' 當時這些貴族聽完哈哈大笑,還互相碰杯,先前的優雅完全不見了。

按理說,人家在罵你祖宗了,你即使沒有話說,起碼可以掀桌子啊! 但所有人都坐著不吭聲,也可能是還沒反應過來, 我當時只好平和地告訴在場所有外賓: '中國人的祖先是很實在的,我們十二生肖 兩兩相對,六道輪迴, 體現了我們祖先對中國人全部的期望跟要求。 ' 這時 ,現場氣氛雖然從嬉鬧轉為安靜 ,但是他們臉上還是一副不屑的樣子。

我說 :





"第一組是老鼠和牛。老鼠代表智慧,牛代表勤奮。 智慧和勤奮一定要緊緊結合在一起。

如果光有智慧不勤奮,那就變成小聰明;而光是勤奮,不動腦筋,那就變成愚蠢。 所以這兩者一定要結合,這是我們祖先對中國人的第一組期望和要求,也是最重要的一組。





''第二組是老虎和兔子。老虎代表勇猛,兔子代表謹慎。 勇猛和謹慎一定要緊緊結合在一起,才能做到所謂的膽大心細。 如果勇猛離開了謹慎,就變成了魯莽,而你沒有勇猛,一味的謹慎,謹慎就變成膽怯。 這一組也非常重要,所以放在第二。'

我看著這些貴族,補上一句: '所以當我們表現出謹慎的時候,千萬不要以為我們中國人沒有勇猛的一面。 ' ' 實際上,我們祖先追求的是一種和諧的智慧和圓融, 從來不會單獨給一個要求和任務。' 看著大家陷入沉思,我繼續往下說 .


'第三組是龍和蛇。龍代表剛猛,蛇代表柔韌。 所謂剛者易折,太剛了容易折斷,但是如果只有柔的一面, 就易失去主見, 所以剛柔並濟是我們歷代的祖訓。'





接下來是馬和羊。馬代表勇往直前,直奔目標,羊代表和順 。

如果一個人只顧自己直奔目標,不顧周圍,必然會和周圍不斷磕碰,最後不見得能達到目標。 但是一個人如果光顧著和周圍和順,之後他連方向都沒有了,目標也失去了。

所以一往無前的秉性一定要與和順緊緊結合在一起,這是我們祖先對中國人的第四組期望。







' 再接下來是猴子和雞。猴子代表靈活,至於雞呢,以前的年代沒有鐘,都是聽雞鳴聲決定一天的開始, 所以雞定時打鳴,代表穩定。靈活和穩定一定要緊緊結合起來。

如果你光靈活,沒有穩定,再好的政策最後也得不到收穫。但如果說你光是穩定,一潭死水、一塊鐵板, 那就不會有我們今天的改革開放了。只有它們之間非常圓融的結合,一方面具有穩定性,保持整體的和諧和秩序, 另一方面又能不斷變通地前進,這才是最根本的要旨。




' 最後是狗和豬 。狗是代表忠誠,豬是代表隨和。
一個人如果太忠誠,不懂得隨和,就會排斥他人。 而反過來,

一個人太隨和,沒有忠誠,這個人就失去原則。


所以無論是對一個民族國家的忠誠、對團隊的忠誠,還是自己理想的 忠誠, 一定要與隨和緊緊結合在一起,這樣才容易真正保持內心深處的忠誠。


這就是我們 中國 人一直堅持的外圓內方,君子和而不同。


'中國人每個 人都有屬於自己的生肖,有的人屬豬,有的人屬狗,這意義何在?實際上,我們的祖先期望我們要圓融,不能偏頗,要求我們懂得到對應面切入。比如屬豬的人能夠在他的隨和本性中,也去追求忠誠;而屬狗的人則在忠誠的本性中,去做到隨和。

' 解釋完十二生肖,我說:' 不知道你們那些寶瓶座啊、射手座啊、公羊座啊,體現了你們祖先哪些期望和要求? 也希望不吝賜教 '


結果呢,這些貴族老爺們很長時間都沒說話,全場鴉雀無聲,一根針掉在地上都能聽見。 最後貴族們紛紛由衷地表示對中國人和中國人的祖先非常敬佩:


' 沒有想到中國的十二生肖有這麼深刻而實在的意義。'

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HOW CLEVER THIS IS !‏




























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Sunday, January 18, 2009
忙啊忙





忙是什么?
早上起来,没时间吃早餐,坐公交就要迟到,边接电话边吃午饭,下班回家就要赶紧洗衣做饭,凌晨睡前还要打开电脑看看……一天从早到晚脚打着后脑勺这都是忙的表现。不断地听着身边越来越多的人说:“这段时间我太忙啦……”

忙些什么?
国事、家事、私事、天下事;博客、QQ、手机、E-mail;房子、车子、票子、位子、老婆孩子……人人都在忙,只是各忙各的,各有各的忙……忙得是天翻地覆,忙得气喘吁吁。忙是活着的表现,忙是现代的生活节奏……

为什么忙?
大家都在忙,为什么忙?
为钱忙的——烦,因为赚不到钱;为情忙的——累,因为都太虚伪;为生活忙的——疲惫,因为世界变得太快,为理想忙的——迷茫,因为现实太残酷梦想太遥远……

都怎么忙?
为钱的——用血汗的劳心劳肺不足温饱、用智慧的遮遮掩掩勾心斗角、用骗术的连唬带蒙东躲西藏、用权术的寝食难安终日惶惶、用色相的遭人唾弃毫无尊严、用名望的以末取本著书立传……
忙啊忙~~
为情的——用真心的鸡飞蛋打人去财空、用技巧的变化无常投机取巧、用手段的虚情假意乘人之危、用兵法的阴谋诡计防不胜防、用炒作的虚张声势绯闻不断……忙啊忙~~
为生活的——用工资的斤斤计较勤俭持家、用公款的山珍海味周游列国、用茅草的看着太阳望着月亮、用金屋的防着大的盯着小的……忙啊忙~~

忙到什么?
没钱的穷人愁,有钱的富人更愁;
追逐爱情的愁,得到爱情的更愁;
畅想生活的愁,感受生活的更愁;
有理想的发愁,没啥理想的更愁……
忙到最后怎么都觉得这么累,这怨得了谁呢
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忙與盲
曾有一次晚餐 和一張床 在什麼時間地點和哪個對象 我已經遺忘 我已經遺忘 生活是肥皂香水 眼影唇膏
許多的電話在響 許多的事要備忘 許多的門與抽屜 開了要關 關了又開 如此的慌張 我來來往往 我匆匆忙忙 從一個方向到另一個方向
忙忙忙 忙忙忙 忙是為了自己的理想 還是為了不讓別人失望 盲盲盲 盲盲盲 盲得已經沒有主張 盲得已經失去方向 忙忙忙 盲盲盲 忙得分不清歡喜和憂傷 忙得沒有時間痛哭一場
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Sunday, January 11, 2009
What baby are you?
---------------JANUARY BABY----------------
Pretty/handsome.. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to Recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth.Stubborn.
----------FEBRUARY BABY ------------
Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexiest out of everyone.Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. HonestAnd loyal. Determined to reach goals. LovesFreedom.. Rebellious when restricted.. Loves Aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it.Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friendsBut rarely shows it. Horny. Daring and stubborn.Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the Inside not outside.. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift... Tries to learn to show emotions.
-----------------MARCH BABY --------------------
Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate Shy and Reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous And sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity.Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered.Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up Feelings. Observant and assesses others.
------------------APRIL BABY -------------------
Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous. Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and Sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. DoesWork well with others. Very confident.. Sensitive.Positive Attitude. Thinking generous. Good Memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look For information. Able to cheer everyone up and/or Make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and Others. Understanding. Fun to be around. Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and Traveling. Systematic. Hot but has brains.
-----------------MAY BABY -----------------
Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and Highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint.Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex.Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to Dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good Imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. LovesLiterature and the arts. Loves traveling. DislikeBeing at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High spirited.
------------JUNE BABY -------------
You've got the best personality and are an Absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make New friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt And more than likely have an a very attractive Partner. A wicked hottie. It is also more than likely That you have a massive record collection. You Have a great choice in films, and may one day Become a famous actor/actress yourself - heck, You've got the looks for it!!!
----------------JULY BABY --------------
Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to Be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. EasilyConsoled. Honest. Concerned about people's Feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable.Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. Spazzy at times.Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets.Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. SensitiveAnd forms impressions carefully. Caring and Loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of Sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges peopleThrough observations. Hardworking.. No difficulties In studying. Loves to be with friends Always broodsAbout the past and the old friends. Waits for Friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive Unless provoked.. Loves to be loved. Easily hurtBut take s long to recover.
------------AUGUST BABY ---------------
utgoing personality. Takes risks. Feeds on attention. No self control. Kind hearted. self confident. Loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful.. Easy to get along with and talk to. has an 'everything's peachy' attitude. Likes talking and singing. Loves music. Daydreamer. Easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. Loves to be loved. Hates studying. In need of 'that someone'.Longs for freedom... rebellious when withheld orRestricted. Lives by 'no pain no gain' caring. Always a suspect. Playful. Mysterious. 'Charming' or 'beautiful' to everyone. Stubborn. Curious.Independent. Strong willed. A fighter...
------------SEPTEMBER BABY ---------------
ctive and dynamic.. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic.Consoling, friendly and solves people's problems.Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends.. Enjoys making love. Emotional. Stubborn.. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivatesoneself and others. Loves to travel and explore...Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand.
---------------OCTOBER BABY -------------------
Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the centre. Inner and physical beauty.. Lies but doesn't pretend. Gets angryoften. Treats friends importantly.. Brave andfearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt butrecovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest ANDsexiest of them all.
---------------NOVEMBER BABY --------------------
Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun. Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towardsyour inner and outer beauty and independentpersonality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group. Fearless and independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in acrowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, thegreatest men are born in this month. If you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind.
---------------DECEMBER BABY ---------------
This straight-up means your the most good-looking person possible... better than all of these other months! Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitivein everything. Active in games and interactions.Impatient and hasty... Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced bykindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots ofideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Has that someonealways on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer.Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show character. One guy/girl kind of person .. Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. loves music
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Friday, January 09, 2009
2008金融危机的13项注意‏





posted by [ImperiaL] @ 9:45 PM   0 comments
Monday, January 05, 2009
我要减肥!!
减肥第一天,早餐吃我爸爸弄得手工面,淡了点,吃得也不多。
午餐吃我早上准备的营养餐。那就是“五谷水”
放工回家一个人走去跑步。半条命。
晚餐吃像猫吃得那么一点点的饭,多吃菜和鱼。
现在是十点半了,肚子开始的俄了起来。真想去煮包MEE SEDAP吃,过过瘾。
救命啊!!我的天啊!!真难受啊!!
我要忍。。。。。
早点睡就不会肚子饿了。
神啊!!救救我吧!!一把年纪了。。。。。
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Thursday, January 01, 2009

Year 2009





不知不觉又迈向新的一年了。不认老也不行了。身体和健康一天比一天的老化了,白头发也随着岁月慢慢的一根一根冒出来了。难道是烦恼太多了吗?钱啊!钱啊!钱啊!真的是超讨厌的。


今年是牛年嘛!希望对生肖的我会事事顺利及身体健健康康的。当让也希望桃花运也会来咯!哈哈!最后,希望在今年我会赚到我的第二桶金。希望第二桶金能在汶莱找到。因为第一桶已经用掉了。哈哈!这就是我今年的愿望了。希望会实现。大家帮帮忙为我祷告啊!我不会亏待你的。我会太贪心点了吗?希望在今年在做每件事情都会有目标的在做,不要在这里撞撞那里撞撞了。回想去年还真的是。。。。咳!当然也有好的事情啦!都没那么遭就是了。原上帝会在一直的赐恩赐富在我们这家庭以及我身边的朋友吧!
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